The man pages are unclear as to how you assign a host to the client. Any idea what a common config file looks like for bitchx with efnet ipv6 servers (ssl)

I need some instruction on how to get BitchX configured for connecting to efnets ssl ipv6 servers. I tried /server irc.paraphyics.net,6697 -h "hostname". It keeps closing the connection on the remote end, and connecting to eversible.net. I haven't found much information on configuring BitchX properl...